When I'm An Old Gay

When I become an old gay, I plan to have married my current partner and have at least two children. One from adoption, and one from a surrogate. I want to have my own house, and would love to have designed my own house for my husband and I to retire in to, somewhere that is quiet, yet gay-friendly. I want to be surrounded by my children and their families. I grew up pretty much with just my father, my brother, and me. So I guess that is the reason I want to be surrounded by family, and let my children know they will have family around them for support. I will discipline my children, but only in a way that they will respect their elders. I will never spoil my children to the point that they think they will deserve everything under the sun. I wasn't given everything that most of my friends had, and I think that made me more respecting of the things I actually do have. I can't wait