When I'm An Old Gay

When I become an old gay, I plan to have married my current partner and have at least two children. One from adoption, and one from a surrogate. I want to have my own house, and would love to have designed my own house for my husband and I to retire in to, somewhere that is quiet, yet gay-friendly. I want to be surrounded by my children and their families. I grew up pretty much with just my father, my brother, and me. So I guess that is the reason I want to be surrounded by family, and let my children know they will have family around them for support. I will discipline my children, but only in a way that they will respect their elders. I will never spoil my children to the point that they think they will deserve everything under the sun. I wasn't given everything that most of my friends had, and I think that made me more respecting of the things I actually do have. I can't wait

Disconnecting Myself

"Ok I'll admit!!! I am addicted to online social media. :-( It's something that is sweeping the Internet and everyone, most everyone, is apart of. It's hard to say, but I just do not want to be apart of the Facebook social media part. I have been on there for two years, possibly over 2,000 status updates, and even more likes and comments. Out of the blue, my boyfriend tells me that he is deactivating his Facebook account. He says he spends too much time on Facebook. This made me realize that I do the same, but probably worse.


Many times when I plan on studying or reading some of my books, Facebook somehow finds a way to lure me in. Whether it's just sitting there with the home screen waiting for people to update or searching through friends pictures and status updates. This is horrible. Suddenly two hours later